Anyway, onto the learning thing. Should be a short post. Related: I never learn. Just kidding. I do. Sort of Well, sometimes. For example, the specifically vs pacifically thing. However, I'm asking
the intriguing question: how do I learn best?
This is because it's today's prompt for Life This Week. If it were up to me I'm more likely to ask the question: can today be cancelled so we can all go back to bed? No? HMPH.
I had to think about this, because to be honest I'm not really sure how I learn best. Most likely through reading. But how did I learn to read?
I was always a patchy learner. This is due to the fact that I hyper focus on things that interest me and completely tune out if they don't. I'm weird.
Additionally, I could still manage to bomb in exams. Even in subjects that interest me. It's a gift, people! Apparently, many autistic people are visual thinkers, but I tend to think mostly in language. Maybe a bit of both.
Unfortunately, I often tuned out when I was at school and missed entire lessons. There was also those occasions when I read a sneaky book under the desk, but we won't talk about that... I can't focus or concentrate for long periods, or focus on more than one thing at a time.
If I'm given verbal instructions I forget, so having stuff written down or reading something works best for me. My mum taught me to read by sounding the words out. (which answers my earlier question...). I seemed to be a natural reader and speller. When it came to other subjects like maths and science I just tuned out. I simply didn't care. Who knows what goes on in this brain of mine. It's a vacuum up there.
These days I'm not involved in any sort of formal learning and I have to admit I struggle big time to be of assistance with my kids homework or assessment tasks. It's very embarrassing and disconcerting.
Occasionally, I have these awful dreams where I'm back at school and/or having to do exams. I always wake up in a panic. I guess the academic world wasn't meant for me. Also, I always knew emphatically that I could never be a teacher. I admire and respect people who are because it's beyond my capabilities.
Thinking about it, I have come to the conclusion that I'm mostly a slow learner. It's always taken me longer than others to do certain things, such as learning to drive. I was never the type of a person who could pick things up easily and bluff my way through assignments or exams. I had a friend at school who could do that. She would put in minimal effort, often not even turning up for most of the school year and then still come dux almost every year. It was really quite extraordinary.
Of course I do love to read. So I guess reading is my preferred way of learning. Besides, what I lack in academic ability I make up for by being stupendously GORGEOUS.
Um, I just compared myself to a dog... But luckily dogs are awesome. All good!
What about you?
How do you learn best?
Are you really, really, ridiculously good looking?
Oh Ness, you write with such interest and amusement so stop putting yourself down..right!! Thank you for sharing "your" stories. I think you are brilliant. Thank you for linking up for #lifethisweek 21/52 and next week's prompt is Hobbies.
ReplyDeleteI know, I know. The self-deprecation thing - I'm still working on that! If you say I'm brilliant, who am I to argue? Thanks D x
DeleteReading is definitely my preffered way of learning too!
ReplyDeleteIt's THE BEST! xo
DeleteI'm ridiculously good looking. Oh wait. Ridiculous. I'm ridiculous. Close enough. I can't help the kids with their home work when they have to make podcasts and things. I have no idea...
ReplyDeleteLOL Glad I'm not the only one!
DeleteYou forgot gorgeous AND funny! I am a visual learner, I tend to tune out if someone is jabbering on about something which I have no interest in.
ReplyDeleteYep, me too! And THANK YOU xo
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